“The old way of thinking is as if you were the lowly servant of a king or the daughter of a slave. This old way is built on a fallacy and pre-supposes that you are broken and incomplete. It’s a new dawn. The new message is that you are and have always been the daughter of a KING.
You are whole and complete. It is based on an eternal TRUTH! This is the season to return to wholeness. Step into your magnificence. Greatness resides in YOU! The world is waiting for you.” ~Excerpt from the upcoming book: ‘UN-Locking Your HeArt of Leadership’~
WWN Reflection DAY 21: Take ACTION and Transform Your Life!
The focus today is on telling yourself EMPOWERING stories!
All change, all learning, all growth is mainly done on an unconscious level. Be mindful, therefore, of the stories you feed your unconscious mind and the movies you play in your head. Tell yourself wonderful stories. Tell stories with a sole purpose of getting something positive out of it. The stories start in your head. The most important conversations are the ones you have with yourself.
Explore the learning, growth and idea in each story and apply the principles to make your life better. Events are events, your interpretation of the event is your story. Tell stories that move you in the direction of your purpose. The story is merely a story, how you tell it is more important!
Tell stories about yourself and others that empower and not dis-empower you! Get out of the victim mode! Your past is your past! Acknowledge the story, acknowledge the pain, re-frame it and simply DECIDE to let it go. Tell stories about yourself and others that have solutions. Tell stories that bring you to light. Come out of the darkness. We co-create our own hell or heaven. Everything depends on our perspective. It is always a choice.
You live out the stories in your head! Be gentle with yourself and others. We are all reflections of one another, we are here to learn from one another, period. Tell stories that will add to the process of your continuous growth. No one is better than the other.
Everyone is equal. Life is a game and we are all still figuring it out. No one has all the answers, the key is to keep asking questions and re-framing your stories. As long as you are alive, your stories are never done, they are constantly evolving. When we’re done, we’re basically dead!
Some people are here to teach us life lessons, so that we may also teach and pass it on to others. So every painful or difficult experience happens to make us grow and become a beacon of hope to others. Stop looking back, stop looking down, you are not going that way! Look up and look forward, the future awaits and you get to write the script and direct the movie of your life story!
FOCUS on what you want and say it exactly how you want it. For every single thing that has form was once formless, i.e. a mere thought. Guard your thoughts and your words, for soon they manifest into reality.
Channel ALL your energy to create the reality that you desire. Stop filling up your minds with thoughts that are at cross-purpose with your destiny! You are a co-creator with God, you are living out a script written by your own hands. Yes, HE has given you that much power! God’s made you co-heirs and co-creators of his kingdom.
So step out in courage and follow your heart, intuition, unconscious mind and that still, quiet whisper within. Take ACTION towards a Healthier, Sexier, Wealthier YOU! To do otherwise is to selfishly rob the world of a precious gift. Play at 100%, and give life your all or don’t play at all. The world will all be better for having, knowing and experiencing ALL of you. Yes, you are that awesome!
You already have enough, be content and be grateful. Create the paradise that you desire NOW. And it is important to understand that you possess the innate, divine ability to create more, should you need more in life. There are unique gifts, talents and skills you possess that the world is waiting to pay for! It is simply an exchange of values from you and the universe and it is ALWAYS in synchronistic balance.
The caveat is that everything must be to God’s glory and to serve/love your neighbours. It must be ecological, a WIN-WIN-WIN balance; for self, for others and for the planet as a whole. WE are all connected! We are all ONE! So direct your thoughts to align with your vision and dreams. Dream BIG, it doesn’t cost you a single cent or kobo! 🙂
Remember, whatever you have in your physical universe is a reflection of the thoughts and (in)actions that you have taken in the past. It is your evidence procedure. It does not lie! So you get to choose and co-create your reality every single moment. You get to be ‘right’ whichever path you take. Life is truly a self-fulfilling prophesy! So ask yourself: ‘Am I congruent in my patterns of words-thoughts-actions?’
Have a thoughtful, reflective day!
At Whole Woman Network, our coaching/training approach is based on the premise of self-leadership, self-responsibility and self-accountability. Until we can lead ourselves, it is futile to attempt to lead or influence others. It is a faith-based, result-oriented, holistic, inside-out approach that delves into the root causes of problems. The focus is simply to get you to a ‘solutions zone’. It is based on the premise that YOU are already whole and complete and simply need to be reminded. You have the answers within you and all we do is ask the right questions to trigger that which is inherent in you. Are you ready to un-lock your heArt of leadership?
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-Juliet ‘Kego Ume-Onyido, MBA
Poet | Master-Certified Leadership Coach-Trainer -Consultant|
~Take empowered ACTION towards a Healthier, Sexier, Wealthier YOU!~
The preceding is a guest post from Juliet Ume, MBA –Co-Founder and Executive Director at Whole Woman Network. Juliet is the author of the upcoming books: “UN-Locking Your HeArt of Leadership” and “Today, I Will Not Bow”. A self-described Life-Connoisseur, who loves life and the whole human experience, Juliet was nicknamed a ‘reminderist’, [one who reminds us of that which we already know; that we are not fractured or broken and NOW is the perfect time to replace that fallacy with a new, beautiful truth: we are worthy, empowered, complete, whole creatures and our life journey is to return to wholeness]!
Her message is simply: “To use the power of written-spoken-sung WORDS to connect, heal, empower, change and transform our inner and outer worlds. Words have power in the meaning and interpretation we choose to give them and all of life is synchronistic poetry in motion! Are you telling empowering stories about yourself and others?”
She is a passionate advocate of WomEntrepreneurship, Leadership, Investment & Financial Literacy for women and youth (especially girls). Her mission is simply to engage, educate and empower women, regardless of their levels of income or background, to return to ‘wholeness’ and live Healthier, Sexier, Wealthier Lives using Faith-based, Scientific and Universal (Common-Sense) principles! Follow her on Twitter: @wholewomaninc, @julietumeinc. Enjoy some of her portfolio of poems on her Floetry Blog and follow her daily reflective posts on Facebook.
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